Recently, while chatting with friends, I noticed an interesting phenomenon: many guys experience "confession anxiety" when pursuing a girl. For instance, a friend of mine met a girl through a blind date, and they hit it off quite well. However, when he confessed his feelings, he was met with resistance. The girl said, "You haven't seen my 1008 flaws yet, isn't it too early to say you like me?"

Honestly, my first reaction was: this girl is adorable! But upon reflection, this is actually a classic test. As "Wudaokou Food God" commented, of course, different people evoke different feelings, but the girl's statement is essentially probing your sincerity.

Discussing the topic of getting into a relationship, I've noticed that many guys are stuck in a "homebody" dilemma. As mentioned in the article, modern social lives are too sparse, even borrowing soy sauce relies on delivery. I recall a netizen "Qianshu" commenting, "I just don't like going out, what should I do?" This reminded me of my past self. Later, I realized that to get into a relationship, one really can't be too much of a homebody.

Here's a small tip: start by changing your social circle. For example, share more about your daily life, especially in the evenings, which works particularly well. I tried this a few times and noticed a significant increase in likes from girls. As the article suggests, if a girl is willing to continue the conversation, it indicates she has a favorable impression of you.

When it comes to dating, I believe the most important thing is to let the other person feel your thoughtfulness. For instance, plan the entire itinerary in advance, include multiple stops, so the day is filled with beautiful memories. A friend of mine successfully pursued his current girlfriend this way; their first date included three different places, and the girl later told her friends, "Time flies when I'm with him."

However, getting into a relationship shouldn"t be rushed. As "My Heart Flies 8928554" commented, "First, you need a car," which, although a joke, reflects the anxiety many feel today. I think it's better to spend more time getting to know each other rather than rushing into a confession. After all, genuine feelings need time to develop.

Finally, to those still worried about getting into a relationship: don't stress, take it slow. As the article says, getting into a relationship is actually simple; the key is to find the right person and the right approach. Wishing everyone finds their own happiness!